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Stories and ideas on fair negotiation, effort-based fairness, and the small things that make relationships work.

I House-Broke My Roommate (and He Taught Me More Than I Expected)

MaraJune 12, 20269 min read

What living with a friend in a 70s apartment taught me about patience, effort, and the conversations every relationship needs.

FairEnoughJune 10, 20265 min read

How effort-based fairness changes the way you and your partner negotiate the small stuff — and why equal isn't the same as fair.