Alex askedCost 7/10
Clear the garage by end of the month
Alex asked Sam to finish or donate the unfinished woodworking project and reclaim the garage bay so the car could fit again before winter.
The conversation your
relationship actually needs.
FairEnough™ helps you start with what you love about each other, surface what you'd like to change, and negotiate trades that feel fair to both people — not just equal. For couples, roommates, friends, or anyone sharing a life.
Private by default. We never see your lists.
Six steps. Appreciation first.
Every FairEnough session starts with what you value about each other. That's not optional — it's the foundation.
1
Appreciate
Tell the other person what you value about them. Share what you admire and are grateful for. This isn't fluff — it's the foundation that makes everything else possible.
2
Request
Each of you privately lists 1–3 things you'd like the other to work on. Framed as requests, not complaints.
3
Rate Effort
The person being asked rates how hard each change would actually be for them. A 1 is effortless. A 10 means a serious habit overhaul.
4
Reveal
Both lists and effort scores are revealed at the same time. No peeking early, no advantage to going second.
5
Trade
FairEnough proposes a balanced trade where total effort is roughly equal for both sides. Fair means equal effort, not equal count.
6
Track
Check in on how you're both doing. Celebrate follow-through. Revisit what isn't working.
ExampleAlex & Sam
Dinner and the Garage
Alex and Sam had been circling the same two frustrations for months — the half-finished project taking over the garage, and the phones that kept creeping into dinner — before a FairEnough round gave them a way to name the trade and agree to it.
Sam askedCost 7/10
Phones off the table at weekday dinners
Sam asked Alex to leave phones in the kitchen during weekday dinners so they could actually hear about each other's day without the pull of notifications.
The agreed trade — Alex does the asked-for thing, and Sam does theirs:
Alex: 7Fair tradeSam: 7
What they appreciated about each other
- Alex: “I see how much you carry on the weeks I'm travelling — the small decisions you make that keep our life running.”
- Sam: “Your steadiness when I'm stressed about work means more to me than I ever say out loud.”
Not just couples.
Co-founders, business partners, anyone running something together — FairEnough works for the trades that aren't about laundry or bedtime.
Roommates
Dishes and Downtime
Jordan & Riley
- Jordan asked
- Empty the sink before bed
- Riley asked
- Alternate TV picks on weeknights
Jordan: 3Fair tradeRiley: 4
Co-parents
Bedtime and Mornings
Morgan & Casey
- Morgan asked
- Take full bedtime routine three weeknights
- Casey asked
- Own the morning school run those same three days
Morgan: 6Fair tradeCasey: 6
Business partners
Pipeline and Pitch
Sasha & Dev
- Sasha asked
- Own the proposal-writing pipeline this quarter
- Dev asked
- Lead outbound calls to the top-30 prospect list
Sasha: 7Fair tradeDev: 7
Fair doesn't mean equal.
Most tools treat every ask the same. FairEnough doesn't. Doing the dishes might be a 2 for you and an 8 for your partner. Putting phones away at dinner might be the reverse.
FairEnough weighs the actual effort behind each change — so what you agree to is genuinely fair, not just numerically balanced.
This isn't therapy. It's a tool. Think of it as a budgeting app for the small stuff that adds up in every relationship.
Built for trust.
Phase-gated for fairness
Neither person sees the other's data until mutual reveal. No peeking, no advantage.
Your data stays private
Your data is encrypted, never sold, and visible only to you and the person you're negotiating with.
Free for early adopters
No ads, no strings. Get full access to every feature while we build something great together.
Start with what you value about each other.
FairEnough™ is free for early adopters. No ads, no strings — just a better way to have the conversations that matter.
Takes 2 minutes. Invite the other person after.